Where has the time gone? I can't not believe it is already time for the new year and time to go back to school. I have had one of the the most blessed years ever, full of ups and downs and I can not wait to bring in 2012 with some of my best friends. Friday I'll be jumping on a plane (yes Buck, a plane... not a bus) heading to San Antonio, Texas. Another good friend and I will be visiting one of our best friends from high school and bringing the new year in. I wish I could say we planned the trip just to plan it, but we just needed to get out there.
There are no words in my mind to describe my friendship with miss Cortney, and when I first met her in the 8th grade we were nothing short of complete opposites. I was the preppy cheerleader all up in your face with school spirit while she had her black fingernails and sweet black converse on. This did not stop us from becoming the best of friends. When I first learned of her disease, Cystic Fibrosis, I had NO IDEA what the heck it was. She had to crack these weird pills after everything she ate, she could never be around smoke, alcohol was a no-no, purple ribbons were pretty cool to her, and when I went to her house she had to do "therapy". The severity of the disease had yet to strike me purely because she kept such a strong heart and a comedic will.
Cystic Fibrosis: a disease passed down through families that causes thick, sticky mucus to build up in the lungs, digestive tract, and other areas of the body. It is one of the most common chronic lung diseases in children and young adults. It is a life-threatening disorder.-- NCBI
CF affects about 30,000 children and adults in the US--
Each time two carriers of the CF gene have a child, the chances are:
- 25% (1 in 4) the child will have CF;
- 50% (1 in 2) the child will carry the CF gene but not have CF; and
- 25% (1 in 4) the child will not carry the gene and not have CF
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I am definitely no expert on CF, but the research I have done on it, and well being with Cortney, proves to be the same. Patients tend to have very thick, salty mucous, frequent appetite, wheezing and shortness of breathe. One mom of two kids with CF describes it this way:
“CF is a genetic disease that causes thick, sticky mucus throughout the body. People with CF, including babies, can have a hard time getting enough nutrition because of problems with the digestion of their food. The mucus also causes lung problems. The average life expectancy is in the mid-30s and climbing fast due to great medical advances. I have a lot of hope that my kids will outlive me. However, their health depends on many things, including how well they take care of themselves. To me, CF is no longer a death sentence; it’s something that our family simply lives with in order to live life well.”
In the back of my mind, I always knew what was going on with her health. Every time she would cough up mucous, every time we would wake up to a cough attack, or the time we went on a cruise and had to lug her 83265983745lb therapy machine with us on the ship. But, none of it mattered... we always managed to ask someone to stop smoking around us or make sure she had what she needed. She was our best friend. The thing that ALWAYS gets me the most is her. While my friends and I sit here and have this huge pity party about our friend having this life-threatening disease, here is Cort, with a smile.
Meet Cortney.
Cortney is an avid Dr. Pepper drinker, chocolate cake eater, McDonald's lover, swam for her neighborhood swim team, and absolutely loved a good Lil Wayne song. Granted the Dr.Pepper most likely is not the best for her lungs, swimming evened it out just nicely. Swimming provided her a great escape. Yeah, most the time Cort hated it, but her lungs thanked her. I remember coming over to her house, her room was BRIGHT PINK (we painted that one summer day haha) and we would sit on AIM instant messenger all day long...... what we talked about, I am not sure. But, hey from 8th-12th grade it must of fulfilled our lives. Her dad drove us around in his expedition and we listened to JAY-Z, we thought we were SO COOL! Ashlee, her sister would talk to us about boys, her mom would cook us the best Italian food and make sure she did her therapy. Sometimes we would sit in her driveway with friends (boys... yeah we were so cool!) and she would laugh till she had a laughing/coughing attack, then we would run inside and make ramen noodles. You would never know she had this disease, ever. She had some sort of invigorating appeal about her that honestly I can not put into words. She never let CF get her down. She was just another 17-year-old girl with boy issues and worried who she was she was going to take to homecoming. Some of my best middle and high school memories are with Cortney.
When we said our goodbyes for college, she and her family departed for Texas. Her dad has been apart of the Air Force for years now, and San Antonio was there next destination. We all knew she'd be fine there, she was literally the most outgoing girl we knew, she could talk to a tree if need be.
So, here we come Cort! We will be popping bottles of Dr.Pepper for NYE!!